This blog is a series of write-ups that describe thoughts and ideas that are bubbling oh-so-always in my head. Being an analytical Virgo, my mind is always at work, wading through days and events with my brain’s magnifying glass. And the thing that I enjoy the most is thinking about how do people live their day everyday? What comprises the daily thoughts, decisions and chores of people? What are their everyday essentials? Each time I pass by a building or a house, a sneak peek through an open window shows me a cupboard, a clothes-line, or a cooking range or a study table or some such aspect. And each time I wonder how must people in the house be using all these things everyday? What must the cupboard or the refrigerator be witnessing ? If these inanimate things could speak, how would they describe a day in their lives? It’s one of the most fascinating thoughts of my head that every person in this world lives a different ‘everyday’ than anyone else!
Unfortunately though, off late, one thing about the everyday bothers me. And that is a continuous blacklisting of the everyday routine that I notice a lot of people doing . Let me explain.
A lot of advertisements and hoardings these days talk about a ‘break from routine’, ‘a change from everyday’, ‘a home away from home’. Traveling to a new location, sitting by a plush green lawn sipping your favorite beverage, dancing to groovy disco musics and letting your hair down – these seem to be the ‘to-do’ things to unwind. Weekend plans, travels, parties are so much more on the rise than what it was, say ten years ago. True that a break from monotone is required to refresh you from routines; but I am worried about a bigger message that this culture is conveying; especially to the gen-next out there. And that is of a near complete necessity to go away from routine to seek happiness. And amidst all this, the ‘everyday’ is constantly being accused of increasing the stress and negativity in people’s lives. And that concerns me.Why is ‘life’ only in the ‘break from everyday’? Why is there an underlying assumption that everyday things are totally boring and you ‘need to’ break free out of those to gain happiness? Instead, can you get two flavors of happiness in your life – one that emerges out of routinely things, and a different one from days that are spent outside your routine?
My bottomline here is simple – Everyday is beautiful. Or rather everyday can be made beautiful. You can find amusement and joy in your routines and everyday things. The stuff you do everyday, the people you interact with everyday, the routes you take, the food you cook – basically your everyday is your identity. Not just professional, but also personal identity. It is what makes you ‘you’. And it is what gives you those little experiences in learning, and this totally fascinates me. And on the other hand, the not-so-everyday life of yours gives you a different beautiful aspect of your personality to experience – one that does other hobbies and activities, interacts possibly with different people and enjoys a different series of events. This is your more leisurely state, which gives you amusement out of a greater creative spirit in you.
This almost equal emphasis on everyday stuff, mundane activities and on unconventional not-everyday stuff will be the theme in this blog series. I believe every little thing we do, we use or think about everyday is important, and fun – be it a regular home chore or an exotic piece of art; and deserves equal attention.And hence I invite you all to join me in exploring my wondering thoughts about each and everyday and the stuff we do, see and learn everyday.
I will sign off by saying that this picture here represents the constant element in everyday – sunrise. And with it, I will attempt to introduce to you one more constant element that sits deep within the sunrise – the beauty of everyday 🙂
Nice post. I think the word you are describing is ‘sonder’. This is the realisation that every person you walk past has their own life as vivid and complex as your own 😊
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Yes I guess that is the word I am referring more to!! Thank your for the appreciation!
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You are welcome 🙂 keep up the writing!
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As another analytical Virgo, I love it! We think a lot alike. You are just a lot more coherant about tranlating those thoughts to words than I am XD.
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Thank you!! Looking forward ti more analytical perspectives from another Virgo!
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I have the same thoughts! Glad to know I am not alone. Everyday is magical, I cannot wait to see what you come with your thoughts 🙂
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Thank you for going through my blog…. I looked at yours too – good to know a similarity of thoughts and looking forward to more discussions 🙂
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You’re welcome! Yes, ditto!
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Very interesting post and hits a point I’m guilty of.. we could definitely all live more in the present! Thanks for sharing! 🙂
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Thank you for the appreciation!! Living in the present will definitely give all of us more happiness in smaller bits everyday 🙂
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Amazing post. I so agree with you that we must take time to break the monotony in our lives. Well expressed. 🙂
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Thank you for the appreciation 🙂
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Nice concept (and title) for your blog. I like your visuals and your thought processes.
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Thank you!!
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This is beautiful.
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Thank you!!
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I really agree with you 😀 I love many of my routines that are just “everyday” stuff!
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Thank you!! Great to know that you too love your everyday stuff 🙂
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I like your blog name. And I enjoyed the post, it was a fresh perspective on everyday life. I’m guilty of wanting to escape the everyday myself 😹😹
You sound like a Taurus by the way, are you one?
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Thank you for going through my blog!! Hopefully I can provide newer everyday perspectives in the coming days 🙂 I am not a Taurus, I am a Virgo.
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Your work is really nice.
I loved your article.
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Wow, your first post is great! I agree with you that everyday can be just as beautiful as the days we travel. Your words remind me as many people said monday is monster day, because after short-enjoyable-weekend, they have to face the stressful of monster day.
Great post! Look forward to your other posts!
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Thank you!! Indeed the term Monday blues was itself what got me thinking about this aspect!
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Well, well, well…looks like we see eye to eye 😉
-Ajinkya, AKA: https://airborneorange.wordpress.com/
(See you around?)
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What a great way of looking at things. Gotta follow and see what you come up with next. In the meantime I think I’ll very much enjoy this cup of tea. 🙂
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Thank you!
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Nice post – you’ll have a great blog!
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top 5 favorite post I have read! loved it!
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Thank you! Glad you enjoyed reading!
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Very true. All living occurs in the present. Most people miss out on living because they are either focused on the past or the future. Keep up the good work!
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Thank you for the appreciation! Looking forward to more discussions in the future!
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